Ray

English, French, Italian

I took care of my parents until they passed away. I've been alone since 2001 and am looking for companionship and hopefully love. I have never done this before.
Although I'm gay, I've hidden it for 51 years and it took my therapist well over a year to finally get me to tell my brothers and sister. It took him another 3-4 months to get me to re-connect my internet and try to find someone I could meet. Although I'm not sure this will work, I agreed to try. Et me voici (here I am). I would like to meet a good and decent Christian who shares my values. Although I am Catholic, the denomination doesn't matter. I'm not sure this is right because of the Church teaching, however, I did not choose to be gay. God only knows how I've tried to not be. I pray He understands that I can no longer live alone and without love. I leave it for you to decide if you wish to reach out.

Virgo

Average

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Brown

Caucasian, Other

Never Married

No

No

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

No pets

No

As often as possible

Never

As often as possible

No

Yes

Yes

Yes

Once a month

Some College

Retired

Computers / Electronic

Retired DOO for a food chain

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone, With Parent(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Going to dinner; having an honest conversation trying to get to know each other. Also, getting to find each other's common, as well as, different perspectives on life in general. Then seeing where that leads us.

playing the piano, which I have a great fondness for. And, though I have one, I'll never be a great pianist, nor will i ever be able to play Mozart - my favorite.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Christian

On Holidays

Democrat

Will never be realized because I'm past the age of acceptance. I studied to be a Roman Catholic Priest in my twenties. Then, discovered I was Gay when it was illegal to be. So, I worked in Restaurants and helped people that worked for me however I could with any problems they might. It was a form of ministry for me. In my 28 years of operating single and multiple units, my the grace of God, I was at the right place at the right time to stop three guys from killing themselves over the breakup of a girlfriend. But, most important I was able, after a three hour session to prevent one of my best employees from killing his former best friend when a front page article appeared in the local paper that his friend had molested his younger brother. I will always be thankful for God to have given me the privilege of saving them from making such a horrible mistake.

Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

Wit, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

I look for goodness, honesty, kindness, compassion etc..

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed