Ray

Engels, Franse, Italiaans

I took care of my parents until they passed away. I've been alone since 2001 and am looking for companionship and hopefully love. I have never done this before.
Although I'm gay, I've hidden it for 51 years and it took my therapist well over a year to finally get me to tell my brothers and sister. It took him another 3-4 months to get me to re-connect my internet and try to find someone I could meet. Although I'm not sure this will work, I agreed to try. Et me voici (here I am). I would like to meet a good and decent Christian who shares my values. Although I am Catholic, the denomination doesn't matter. I'm not sure this is right because of the Church teaching, however, I did not choose to be gay. God only knows how I've tried to not be. I pray He understands that I can no longer live alone and without love. I leave it for you to decide if you wish to reach out.

Maagd

Gemiddeld

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Bruin

Blank, Iets Anders

Nooit getrouwd

Nee

Nee

Ogen

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Halfblond

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Zo vaak als mogelijk

Nooit

Zo vaak als mogelijk

Nee

Ja

Ja

Ja

Een keer per maand

MBO

Gepensioneerd

Computers / Electronica

Retired DOO for a food chain

Tussen de €30.000 en €45.000

Alleen, Met Ouder(s)

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Stil

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Grappig

Religie / Spiritualiteit, Gezin, Eten, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Tv, Films, Koken

Met Vrienden zijn, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Een boek lezen, Tv, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Going to dinner; having an honest conversation trying to get to know each other. Also, getting to find each other's common, as well as, different perspectives on life in general. Then seeing where that leads us.

playing the piano, which I have a great fondness for. And, though I have one, I'll never be a great pianist, nor will i ever be able to play Mozart - my favorite.

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn

Christelijk

Op Feestdagen

Will never be realized because I'm past the age of acceptance. I studied to be a Roman Catholic Priest in my twenties. Then, discovered I was Gay when it was illegal to be. So, I worked in Restaurants and helped people that worked for me however I could with any problems they might. It was a form of ministry for me. In my 28 years of operating single and multiple units, my the grace of God, I was at the right place at the right time to stop three guys from killing themselves over the breakup of a girlfriend. But, most important I was able, after a three hour session to prevent one of my best employees from killing his former best friend when a front page article appeared in the local paper that his friend had molested his younger brother. I will always be thankful for God to have given me the privilege of saving them from making such a horrible mistake.

Vriendelijk, Gek, Slapstick

Gevatheid, Spontaniteit, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

I look for goodness, honesty, kindness, compassion etc..

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid